Cain Manor barn wedding venue in Surrey

Cain Manor, Surrey

About Cain Manor, Surrey

Cain Manor is a specialist, exclusive use wedding venue on the Surrey and Hampshire border. It is licensed for civil wedding ceremonies inside and out and offers a choice of celebration and entertaining spaces. Its facilities are summarised below:


Indoor ceremony licence  
Indoor ceremony capacity 123
Outdoor ceremony licence  
Indoor banquet capacity 123
Marquee available  
Evening capacity 170
Exclusive use  
Bridal suite  
Further bedrooms 13
Online wedding planning tool  
Personal wedding planner  
In-house catering  
Kosher catering Non-offensive
External caterer permitted Restricted
Corkage option  
Wheelchair access  
Fireworks permitted  
Live music permitted  
Onsite parking  
Finishing time Midnight
Extension available  
Halal available  
DJ facilities  
Leisure facilities  

Cain Manor wedding venue's gardens
Barn wedding venue Cain Manor

Just a stone’s throw from Farnham and the Hampshire border, Cain Manor is an exclusive use country house wedding venue in Surrey. With its cosy, rustic, barn-style charm, framed with beautiful oak beams and with far-reaching views over the North Downs and Surrey’s Golden Valley, Cain is the perfect venue for couples looking for a spacious yet cosy venue.  Private and secluded, the approach to the house is via a winding driveway through thick green forest.

Cain is licensed for civil wedding ceremonies both indoors and out. The Music Room is a beautiful oak-beamed banqueting hall, able to host up to 123 guests for a seated wedding breakfast. It is licensed for civil wedding ceremonies – as is the gazebo if you fancy tying the knot outside. There is also capacity to invite further guests to join you in the evening.

With 14 stunning bedroom suites including a luxurious Bridal Suite, the house also boasts a tennis court, swimming pool, and extensive landscaped grounds.

Cain Manor is the perfect venue for weddings all year round. During the summer months, hold your canapé reception outside in the grounds and in winter the roaring fires in the Library and Drawing Room create a cosy backdrop for your intimate celebration.

As with all of the Bijou-owned wedding venues, Cain benefits from all of the experience and attention to detail that defines the Bijou brand. From wedding planners to help you plan your perfect day to webcams to enable your absent friends and family to join you on your day, we've used our 15 years of practice to make sure everything is absolutely perfect.

Wedding Venue Accommodation

The benefit of a wedding venue with accommodation is that of having your closest family and friends stay for the duration of your celebration – the wedding venue really is your home for your big day. Relax and enjoy every element of home – from getting ready in the Bridal Suite before your big moment to a nightcap with nearest and dearest before bed. Cain Manor is only available on an exclusive basis for 24 hours, so newlyweds are able to spend their first night as a married couple in the sumptuous Bridal suite at the house. Thirteen further bedroom suites are available for the bridal party to enjoy on the night of the wedding, before sitting down all together to enjoy a hearty breakfast in the Library the following morning.

Hiring a wedding venue with accommodation can have several benefits. It removes many of the timing risks involved with travelling between venues, allows you to prepare for your wedding in a calm, peaceful, luxurious environment and also means that you can tumble into bed in a warm haze just moments after waving goodnight to your last departing guests.

The Location of Cain Manor in Surrey

Cain Manor is located on the border of Surrey and Hampshire, between the villages of Churt and Headley Down. Within a ten-minute drive of Farnham in Surrey and a 5-minute drive of Grayshott and the A3, Cain Manor is a perfectly located wedding venue for couples looking for the ultimate, quiet, country side location within a stone’s throw of London. Close to Farnham and Frensham, Cain Manor is within a twenty-five minute drive of the historic town of Guildford in Surrey and is only an eight mile drive away from the wonderful towns of Haslemere and Godalming. For couples coming from London, Cain Manor is easy to get to and can be driven to in around an hour. The venue is surrounded by convenient transport links and our team will provide couples or guests with contact details for local suppliers to help you and your guests move about. 

Getting to Cain Manor from Churt

Cain Manor is just a three-minute drive from the small village of Churt in Surrey. If you’re coming from the direction of Farnham, pass through Churt and turn right at the crossroad into the Churt Road. Follow the winding, narrow road all the way along until you see the entrance to the wedding venue on the left hand side. 

Getting to Cain Manor from Farnham

From the town centre of Farnham, drive up Firgrove Hill and straight over the traffic lights at the very top, into The Bourne. Continue along the A287 for around 7 miles, passing Frensham and then Churt. At the crossroads in Churt, turn right into Churt Road and follow the road all the way for approximately 2 miles, until you come to the wedding venue entrance on your left hand side. 

Getting to Cain Manor from Frensham

Follow the A287 from Frensham until you get to the small village of Churt. At the crossroads in Churt, turn right onto Churt Road and drive up the long and windy road before approaching the entrance to the wedding venue on your left hand side. 

Getting to Cain Manor from Guildford

If you’re travelling to Cain Manor from Guildford then there are two options. You could drive down the A3 towards Portsmouth, coming off just after the Hindhead Tunnel at the Grayshott exit. Turn right at the roundabout and right at the second roundabout, before taking a left at the third roundabout leading you straight into Grayshott. From Grayshott, continue in a straight line down the the Headley Road, which will then turn into the Grayshott Road, leading you into Grayshott Hill. Then, take a right hand turn upon arriving at the T-junction. You’ll find the wedding venue shortly on your right. Alternatively, you could come off the A3 and join the A31 which will take you down through Farnham. At Hickleys Corner, go left up and over the train tracks and turn right at the fork in the road. Take the second right, into Alfred Road and left at the end to join Firgrove Hill. Follow Firgrove Hill all the way along, through The Bourne and Frensham until you reach Churt. At the Churt crossroads, turn right onto the Churt Road and follow it all the way along until you see the wedding venue on your left hand side. 

Getting to Cain Manor from Haslemere

If you’re travelling to the wedding venue from Haslemere then simply follow Wey Hill until you reach the A287. Follow the road before taking a left onto Hazel Grove. Follow Hazel Grove all the way up to the A3 junction where you’ll then cross over and follow the signs through Grayshott. After you’ve driven through Grayshott, continue on to the Headley Road which then turns into the Grayshott Road. This will then lead you down into Grayshott Hill where you’ll find a T-junction at the end. Turn right and you’ll find the wedding venue on your right hand side. 

Getting to Cain Manor from London

From London, take the A3 south, heading towards Portsmouth. Once you’re through the Hindhead Tunnel, come off at Grayshott and follow the directions through the town, onto the Headley Road. Then, continue onto the Grayshott Road and down into Grayshott Hill where you’ll come to a T-junction. Turn right at the T-junction and the wedding venue can be found shortly after on your right hand side.

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Churt Road
Headley Down
Surrey
GU35 8SR
United Kingdom

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Churt Road, Headley Down, Surrey, GU35 8SR, GB

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Cain Manor, Surrey

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