Cain Manor is an exclusive use wedding venue with a barn style feel, located on the border of Surrey and Hampshire

Cain Manor - A Country House Wedding Venue on the Surrey-Hampshire Border

Exclusive Use Barn-Style Country House Wedding Venue

Cain Manor is a jewel of a country house wedding venue, nestled on the brow of a hill among its own private land and surrounded by thick green English forest on the border of Surrey and Hampshire. Its long, winding driveway through private woodland serves as a perfect introduction to the rustic character of the house and estate. The venue oozes romance, rustic style and English countryside charm and is only available on an exclusive use basis for wedding celebrations and receptions.

This beautiful barn-style country house joined the Bijou Wedding Venues family in 2003, since which time it has reveled in the hosting of truly spectacular barn-style wedding celebrations. It is licensed for civil ceremonies both inside and out and can seat up to 123 guests for your wedding breakfast. The wedding venue itself is thick with character - beautiful period details and old oak floors and beams are beautifully married with the finest in modern style and luxury to create an utterly perfect home-from-home country house wedding venue.  The grounds offer a similar combination of styles, itself a signature of the Bijou Group, with the manicured feature gardens sitting cosily among rolling wild-flower meadows, wild forest and stunning views over the Surrey hills.

In practical terms, Cain Manor is among the finest of wedding venues in the Surrey-Hampshire area. The venue boasts a selection of stunning spaces, both inside and outside, in which you can host the various elements of your Wedding Day. The garden gazebo and oak-beamed Music Room, with its stunning cathedral windows and triple-height ceilings, are both licensed for civil wedding ceremonies and the Library and patio are beautiful spots to entertain your guests during reception drinks and the evening parts of the wedding festivities. The venue also boasts a stunning bridal suite and 13 further bedrooms for your nearest and dearest to enjoy on the night of your wedding celebrations and leisure facilities for them to enjoy during their stay. Importantly, Cain Manor is designed in such a way as to be utterly wonderful at any time of year - no compromises are required if the weather is poor, or you choose a winter date.

Cain Manor’s wedding facilities are summarised below:


Indoor ceremony licence  
Indoor ceremony capacity 123
Outdoor ceremony licence  
Indoor banquet capacity 123
Marquee available  
Evening capacity 170
Exclusive use  
Bridal suite  
Further bedrooms 13
Online wedding planning tool  
Personal wedding planner  
In-house catering  
Kosher catering Non-offensive
External caterer permitted Restricted
Corkage option  
Wheelchair access  
Fireworks permitted  
Live music permitted  
Onsite parking  
Finishing time Midnight
Extension available  
Halal available  
DJ facilities  
Leisure facilities  

Cain Manor is a luxurious, barn-style wedding venue available for exclusive hire on the Surrey and Hampshire border
Cain Manor is located on the border of Surrey and Hampshire and offers exclusive hire for indoor and outdoor wedding ceremonies

A Licensed Barn-Style Countryside Wedding Venue 

Cain Manor is a specialist, licensed, exclusive use barn-style wedding venue on the Surrey-Hampshire border. It is licensed for civil wedding ceremonies both inside and out and offers a choice of wedding celebration and entertaining spaces. Just a stone’s throw from Farnham and the Surrey-Hampshire border, this exclusive use country house wedding venue, with its cosy, rustic, barn-style charm and far-reaching views over Surrey’s Golden Valley, is the perfect venue for couples looking for an intimate, cosy wedding venue in Surrey or Hampshire.

Cain Manor is licensed to host beautiful wedding ceremonies both inside in the Music Room, for up to 123 guests, or outside on the patio if you’re planning a summer celebration. The Music Room is a bright, airy barn-style space with a stunning floor-to-ceiling cathedral window facing out onto the landscaped grounds. It is perfect for saying your ‘I dos’ in cosy, intimate style. The views across the rolling Surrey countryside from the top of the aisle are simply breath-taking and your wedding photographer will be spoilt for choice. Once your wedding ceremony has taken place and your marriage is official, you will relax and enjoy a celebratory drink outside on the lawn (weather permitting!) or in the Library. 

If you’re getting married during the late spring or summer months, then nuptials on the patio, either under the gazebo or outside The Music Room, are possible. Commence married life overlooking the finest views in the county and take advantage of the natural backdrop provided by the grounds and far-reaching views surrounding Cain Manor. There are more beautiful photo spots than can fit into a day - both inside and outside the wedding venue itself.

 

The Music Room set up for a wedding ceremony at Cain Manor, exclusive use country house wedding venue in Surrey
Cain Manor is an exclusive use wedding venue on the border of Surrey and Hampshire that has a license to hold wedding ceremonies outdoors

A Cosy Country House Wedding Reception Venue on the Border of Surrey and Hampshire 

Private and secluded, the approach to the barn-style manor house is via a long, winding driveway through thick green English forest. The stunning woodland driveway leading up to the wedding venue feels a world away from the hustle and bustle of London, which is only an hour away by car. 

This country house has been expertly adapted by the Bijou team to serve as a truly excellent wedding venue - the Elizabethan oak-beamed barn-style country house wedding venue boasts spectacular landscaped grounds, virtually unlimited parking for all your guests and of course all of the wedding planning, wedding venue and wedding catering expertise that comes with booking an exclusive use country house wedding venue with Bijou. It can host up to 123 wedding guests for a country house wedding reception and up to 170 later on in the evening. 

Inside the cosy country house there are several luxurious reception spaces in which to host and entertain your wedding guests during the various parts of your wedding day - whether it’s a sunny summer’s afternoon or a cold December night, with the fires roaring. After a romantic wedding ceremony and celebratory drinks either outside on the patio or inside the cosy Library, the barn-style Music Room will play host to a spectacular wedding breakfast banquet celebration. During your meal, you and your guests will enjoy the fruits of many years of the Bijou in-house kitchen team’s hard work and constant quest for wedding menu perfection.

 

An Exclusive Use Wedding Venue with On-Site Accommodation

Among other things, Cain Manor boasts a gorgeously appointed bridal suite in which newlyweds can spend their first night as a married couple. Thirteen additional luxury bedroom suites are available for the bridal party to enjoy on the night of the wedding, ranging from spacious king-sized beds to cosy twin rooms, suitable for younger guests.  A swimming pool and tennis courts can also be found within the grounds of the wedding venue; ideal for couples and families wishing to relax and enjoy the glorious setting pre or post-wedding.

The morning after your wedding you will wake, as a married couple, in the peace and quiet of Cain Manor’s exquisite countryside location, before perhaps enjoying a stroll around the grounds while you reminisce about the day before meeting your overnight guests for a hearty breakfast. After breakfast you will bid farewell to your overnight guests and the Bijou staff and depart Cain Manor back down the lovely driveway before heading home (or off on your honeymoon) as a married couple.  

Choosing a wedding venue with accommodation can have several benefits. It removes many of the timing risks involved with travelling between venues and allows you to prepare for your wedding in a calm, peaceful, luxurious environment. Relax and enjoy every element of home - from getting ready in the Bridal Suite before your big moment to a nightcap with nearest and dearest before tumbling into bed in a warm haze, having had a truly wonderful day.

 

A Country House Wedding Venue for your Rustic Barn-Style Wedding 

Cain Manor is a charming, country house wedding venue with traditional barn-style features throughout. The enchanted, woodland driveway that leads up to the Manor perfectly offsets the oak features and rustic character of the house itself and is a truly charming way to introduce the wedding venue to your guests. The venue and the grounds are the ultimate backdrop for your wedding photography. 

The grounds and gardens that surround Cain Manor are always beautifully manicured and offer a quiet, peaceful location to host post-wedding drinks and canapés. They also provide a multitude of romantic areas to post for country wedding photographs in private, with the bridal party or with your entire group of guests. 

During the summer months, the outdoor space at Cain Manor is breath-taking. To entertain your guests, you might lay on a selection of giant garden games or you might book a string quartet on the lawn for entertainment, a refreshing lemonade stand or even a trike that can offer Pimm’s or ice cream to keep guests feeling cool and refreshed during the summer season.

In winter, Cain Manor is warm and cosy and offers a wonderful area to entertain guests in the spacious Library. Featuring two fireplaces, oak-beamed ceilings throughout and Bijou’s exceptional service, your wedding at this stunning country house wedding venue on the border of Surrey and Hampshire will be a dream come true, at any time of year.

 

A Specialist Wedding Venue Offering a Unique Planning Tool

Cain Manor, located close to the border of both Surrey and Hampshire, offers exclusivity, unrivalled service and specialist knowledge throughout your wedding planning experience with Bijou. 

Our knowledgeable and experienced Wedding Planning team has the safest hands in the industry. Choosing Cain Manor, our beautiful barn-style country house wedding venue, is more than just booking a location to host your wedding - it is choosing a complete package that includes specialist wedding support throughout the duration of your planning, for total peace of mind. We know that planning wedding whilst trying to juggle your regular work/home balance can be stressful, but our proprietary online wedding planner allows you to keep all of your plans and information in a secure place, allowing both you and us to have ready access to the most up-to-date version of your dream wedding. Whether you’re local to Cain Manor or planning your wedding remotely, the online planner has everything you require, so you’ll have no need to worry about unexpected costs or frustrations like table plans. This wonderful tool ensures optimum transparency of costs, logistics and intricate detailing so that absolute perfection is achieved on the day without you needing to do anything other than relax and enjoy your special occasion. 

Our experienced and dedicated wedding planning department will guide you through your wedding planning journey with expertise and care. Our specialist team has over fifteen years’ experience in making dreams come true and we will offer friendly advice and support as you plan your special day at our stunning barn-style country house wedding venue.

Prior to your wedding you will be invited to a menu tasting session at Cain Manor where you’ll have the opportunity to carefully select the most appropriate dishes for your guests with fine wines to complement each course. All of our menus choices have been designed to work well in any season, but if there is a specific dish that is not on the menu, or you’d like our in-house chef team to create a bespoke menu for your celebration, then we will be delighted to work with you to craft something truly unique and special for your day. 

 

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Churt Road
Headley Down
Surrey
GU35 8SR
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Churt Road, Headley Down, Surrey, GU35 8SR, GB
Churt Road, , Headley Down, GU35 8SR, United Kingdom

Katie & Charlie

" Charlie and I would just like to thank everyone at Cain Manor for an amazing day. We couldn’t have wished for a better wedding, the attention to detail was superb. We have had such lovely comments about the food and venue, so thank you once again. "

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